Linguistic Signaling in Speed-Dates
Abstract
How people use language may signal as much about a person as the conversation topic itself. For example, evidence suggests that similarities in language style may signal romantic interest as people become acquainted. Additionally, language may signal various personal attributes. In the current study, I analyzed linguistic signaling in 174 transcripts from 4-minute heterosexual speed-dates to explore how language style relates to interest in dating a partner and whether linguistic features indicate individual characteristics. I also explored how desired partner features related to actual popularity of dates as well as how partner perceptions predicted romantic interest. Contrary to previous research, findings did not support the idea that language style relates to dating interest potentially because participants adapt their language style regardless of whether they are romantically interested in a partner. However, individual difference variables including self-reported personality factors and attachment style were correlated with aspects of language style. I discuss implications of this research and suggest various avenues for future research.